The passage that you refer to is as follows,
When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to Him, “They have no wine.” And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does that have to do with us? My hour has not yet come.” (NASB) John 2:3-4
We would encourage you to review the study “Wedding At Cana” before reading further. When Mary said, “We have no wine” the context strongly suggested that she did not just want Jesus to help. She wanted Jesus to perform some significant miracle to draw attention to Himself. She saw this as an opportunity for Jesus to make Himself known to the crowd at the wedding.
Jesus’ first comment, “What does that have to do with us?” is a poor translation of the Greek. The literal Greek reads as follows, “What, me and you, woman?” This reveals that Jesus first wondered why she made the statement and then, second, what did she expect? Jesus’ next comment, “My hour has not yet come” reveals that He understood her motive. She wanted Him to do some miracle that was significant enough to draw attention to Him and launch His ministry. His mother did not understand what she was asking. She also demonstrated her lack of respect for Him. He was her God – more than just her human son.
Conclusion:
Mary was disrespectful. She attempted to control Him. Jesus had to make it clear to her that she was not in control and He did so as kindly as He could. He was in an awkward position.
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