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Bible Question: In
the past 5-6 years, my husband and I have both had heart attacks.
His has been disabling. We now have to move into a smaller home. We
are both Christians and so is our son. I suffer from clinical depression.
I know that God is watching over us, but there is a little part of
me that doubts and wants to be in control. But I cannot. Are my thoughts
and feelings normal for these situations? We have wonderful Christian
support from family and friends. However, sometimes I feel that God
is angry with me if I doubt or question Him. His love is very important
to me. Can you help?
Bible Answer: Your
thoughts and emotions are normal. We want to be in control of our
lives, and most Christians have trouble trusting the Lord for every
situation. It is the rare Christian who has such great confidence
in the Lord as not to worry about anything.
The
Lord Loves Us. The most wonderful truth any man or woman can know
is that God greatly loves him/her. God's great passion is that
we will love Him and be constantly seeking Him. He wants us to be
seeking to know Him and love Him. A loving relationship occurs when
two people love each other so much that they want to spend time together
and they want to know one another. Otherwise, there will not be a
relationship. God already loves us and is pursuing a relationship
with us. Yes, God the Father sent Jesus to die for us, but He wants
more than just our intellectual acceptance of Jesus. He wants us to
want Him, to love Him, and to want to know Him as a friend seeks to
know a friend. Therefore, men and women need to seek Him - to love
and know Him. That is God's
great passion.
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"You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with
all your heart. I will be found by you," declares the LORD
. . . (NASB) Jeremiah 29:13-14 |
When
this happens, the heart and passions of every seeking man and woman
will change. Human relationships are changed, but best of all we trust
Him because we realize that He really is our Friend.
Just
Nothing. Is it possible that God might be angry if you continue
to doubt Him? It is more likely that God will allow some difficult
situations to come into your life in order to encourage you to start
trusting Him. Listen to the book of James,
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But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who
doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the
wind. For that man ought not to expect that he will receive
anything from the Lord, being a double-minded man, unstable
in all his ways. (NASB) James 1:6-8 |
God is simply saying that the man or woman who does not trust God
will be unstable. Life will become an emotional ride from highs to
lows. Such a man or woman will be emotionally unstable. Such a man
or woman should not expect to receive anything from God, not because
God is angry but because he/she is not trusting. Why should God meet
our needs if we do not care for Him, respect His love for us, and
believe His promise that He will meet our needs?
Conclusion:
May
I encourage you to trust Him? Start by admitting to Him that you have
sinned by not trusting Him. Then thank Him for forgiving you and begin
seeking to know and love Him as a friend. Seek for Him in the Word
of God with all your heart. Meditate on what you read and ask God
to help you see what the passage you are reading is about. Also ask
God to give you a love for Him, and then thank Him for doing it.
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