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Bible Question:
If you made a vow when you were eleven years old that you would
never take a sip of alcohol, would you be punished if you did
when you were of legal age?
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Bible Answer:
There are two issues in your question. The first is should we
keep our vows and the second is when does God punish us for
the sins we commit?
Keeping Vows. The best summary dealing
with the making and keeping of vows is given by
Jesus in His Sermon on the Mount
. Here are a few verses from His sermon.
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Again, you have heard that the ancients were told, YOU
SHALL NOT MAKE FALSE VOWS, BUT SHALL FULFILL YOUR VOWS
TO THE LORD. . . . But let your statement be, Yes,
yes or No, no; and anything beyond these
is of evil. (NASB) Matthew 5:33, 37
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Here Jesus is rejecting the Jewish religious leaders teaching
that some oaths, vows or promises did not really count. They
said some promises were very important to keep and others were
not that important. For example, if you made a promise to your
manager at work, the Pharisees might say that that one counts
but not the one you made to your spouse, daughter or son. The
promise you made to your credit card company or your mortgage
company is not as important as the one you made to your church.
The commitment you made to your mother or father is not really
as important as that football game, the conversation with your
girl friend, or that movie. For others the marriage vow is an
old, tired idea and some treat it like a vow to be ignored when
convenient. Jesus makes two points: keep our vows and it is
better not to make vows.
We have all promised to do something
and then not done it. Some of us make promises and really never
intend to do what we say. Others make promises and are forever
canceling obligations, or making one excuse after another. The
excuse may be a good one, but God says, we should swear
to our own hurt. What kind of promises do you make? James
4:15-16 tells us how we should make promises,
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If the Lord wills, we shall live and also do this or that.
But as it is, you boast in your arrogance; all such boasting
is evil. (NASB) James 4:15-16
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Our words show that our plans and promises depend on God with
the intent that we will fulfill our obligation to our own hurt.
If you make a vow, keep it!
God and Our Sins.
Will God punish me for breaking a vow I made when I was younger?
Here is an important point to think about. How old must a person
be before he or she must keep the vow? Are vows made at the
age of twenty-one years of age "good vows?" How about
vows at the age of forty years? Vows have been broken that were
made at twenty-one, forty, and even sixty years of age. It breaks
the heart of God to see our causal view of sin. One sin brought
sin to all of mankind. Adam's sin brought death, sickness, and
anger into the human race. Yet, God does not punish
us for every sin we commit. I thank Him for His mercy to me.
Here is a wonderful verse from the Old Testament.
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He has not dealt with us according to our sins, nor rewarded
us according to our iniquities. (NASB) Psalms 103:10
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Conclusion:
Will God punish you for taking a drink? We cannot answer that
question. I would not want to encourgae you to lightly disregard
sin and depend on His mercy. God wants us to keep our commitments
- "yes, yes, or no, no." I believe that the best and
highest response is to keep your vow. I believe that Jesus would
want you to keep your vow. You may also be interested in what
the
Bible has to say about drinking
.
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